الا ان نصر الله قريب. أَلا إِنَّ نَصْرَ اللّهِ قَرِيبٌ

10 It helps realization of Allah so that by and by a stage is reached when he comes to regard Almighty Allah as his sole Cherisher, Guardian and Master, and he turns unto Him, in all afflictions This was a man who was chosen and purified by Providence
In the same way that one who is aloof from a matter, loses that matter, the one who exaggerates also loses that matter Not only that, it also warns against heading towards either extreme: the extreme of too much zealousness and the extreme of too much nonchalance

In fact the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him — PBUH and his great companions set the good example for all mankind in their characters and personalities.

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ألا إن نصر الله قريب
If he had wanted to marry another woman there was no law nor reason nor custom to stop him
ألا إنّ نصر الله قريب
For instance, the notable orientalist William Muir, was an active missionary who authored several books on Islam
أَلَا إِنَّ نَصْرَ اللَّهِ قَرِيبٌ
She died when he was just over 50 years of age
However, the Prophet did not take her to his house as bride until she reached the age of puberty He was always busy in his endless struggle to establish good and eradicate evil
His wife Sawdah, was a woman who had given up the idea of marriage because of her old age Her father was a man of wide knowledge and gentle manners

Follow the path of those before you.

أَلَا إِنَّ نَصْرَ اللَّهِ قَرِيبٌ
2- The Manners of Eating The best manner in which to eat food is with the fingers of the right hand
إسلام ويب
The western influenced media portrays the Islamic system of marriage to be oppressive
ألا إنّ نصر الله قريب
Some people went above them and therefore went to extremes